New for enationers...an ORIGINAL (sorta) topic!

Capt-Sue · Post by **Capt-Sue** » Nov 3 2004 07:24 pm

what do you do to make your relationship happier?

have sex! lol

if it's not working out then why try to make it work. all it does is cause more problems. i think the best thing to do is make yourself happy before you can make someone else happy.

gretchen ross · Post by **gretchen ross** » Nov 3 2004 08:51 pm

to make your relationship happier try a new partner....happiness shouldn't be forced.

Dawn · Post by **Dawn** » Nov 3 2004 09:35 pm

I did this seminar on tape called "how to light his fire" by Dr. Ellen Kreidman....it wasn't about sex, it was about relationships and how to be a better listener and better communicator. I learned a lot from it. You can make your relationship happier really rather easy, it just requires listening, sympathizing and not passing judgement on your mate for mistakes they may make. Of course it helps if you get all this in return as well.

Angie · Post by **Angie** » Nov 3 2004 11:24 pm

not saying force happiness, just asking what you do to contribute to your relationship. I'm not in one at the moment, I was just comin up w/ another question, since Lori set the rules, and what Lori says goes!

TrixR4Me · Post by **TrixR4Me** » Nov 4 2004 08:21 am

Being attentive. sympathetic, good listening, communication, giving each other space when needed, doing your own thing at times,
Massages, cook for them, good sex, haha bleh so much a person can contribute, just be yourself pretty much and keep an open mind, not being judgemental at every lil thing,

Lori · Post by **Lori** » Nov 9 2004 02:18 pm

Forgiveable or not?

Eating the grapes (or crackers, or whatever) before you get to the checkout counter and not paying for them.

I say not, just cuz I am a goody-goody and like to be all responsible.

Ken says fuck em, enjoy the grapes.

soulkiss · Post by **soulkiss** » Nov 10 2004 07:48 pm

i'm with ken in saying enjoy the grapes

deepfriedtwinkie · Post by **deepfriedtwinkie** » Nov 11 2004 07:35 pm

im with lori-i would have guilt...

Lori · Post by **Lori** » Nov 12 2004 12:04 am

OK then, here's another one...this is fun!

Ever been in a bathroom and blamed the eau de poo on someone else, or made a face when you exited to make others think it was "just there" when you got there too?

I actually WAS just arriving one time when the scent fatale hit me...and the chick leaving gave me a "I didn't do it" look.

josh wickham · Post by **josh wickham** » Nov 14 2004 11:46 pm

I'm the KING of walking out of publix with a sub or sushi in hand w/o paying for it....usually I smile at them on the way out and hold it in my hand as if I have nothing to hide....(I only do this if I have money to pay for it, that way I can make it seem like an accident)

my answer: depends on the store, if its a local place, don't do it...screw the corperations