New for enationers...an ORIGINAL (sorta) topic!

Lori · Post by **Lori** » Nov 2 2004 07:44 pm

Forgiveable or not?

Telling on someone who has cheated on their partner.

I say not...none of their beezwax.

Anyone else got an opinion? Once this question has three answers, someone think up another question, and so on.

GO!

DBK · Post by **DBK** » Nov 2 2004 08:17 pm

I say it's not a good idea, cause then you bring all their problems into your own life as well.

TrixR4Me · Post by **TrixR4Me** » Nov 3 2004 07:56 am

Thats a tough ? sort of. Something to ponder. I agree it's none of my business... but your friend better not find out you know. Because sometimes that can back fire on you, and your friend could get mad at the fact that you didn't at least drop a hint that they were being cheated on.
On another note if I was being cheated on. It's hard to believe just by word of mouth. No offense but thats how drama starts. A person would or should have physical proof of some sort in order to believe such things.

Either way the person will find out sooner or later. Just be there for your friend no matter if you tell or not.

Sorry I like to look on both outlooks of the situation. Also depends on how good the friend is that is being cheated on.

justjason · Post by **justjason** » Nov 3 2004 10:39 am

totally depends on the friend...If my best mate is being cheated on, you better believe I'm gonna tell him!!

next question...

R U a cheater??

tru dNb cynic · Post by **tru dNb cynic** » Nov 3 2004 10:41 am

justjason wrote:R U a cheater??

never have been, most likely never will be

Stardust · Post by **Stardust** » Nov 3 2004 11:56 am

nope whats the point of cheating...just get out of the relationship...if your cheating that means ur not happy...so just break up w/ the person and save all the headache and drama...

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Nov 3 2004 12:15 pm

If you are friends with the person that has been cheated on, you have to tell. Otherwise, you are not really a true friend.

deepfriedtwinkie · Post by **deepfriedtwinkie** » Nov 3 2004 12:59 pm

i actually have this situation goin on right now-i want my friend to tell this girl who is bein fucked around on bc a lot of their friends know and this girl is being taken advantage of not to mention embarassed...

Guest · Post by **Guest** » Nov 3 2004 02:05 pm

I know that if I were being cheated on...and my friend knew about it...I would want them to tell me. And I would be PISSED at them if I found out they knew and didn't tell me.

I can't believe some of you would actually stand by and just watch your friends get hurt.

josh wickham · Post by **josh wickham** » Nov 3 2004 02:19 pm

KaotiK wrote:I know that if I were being cheated on...and my friend knew about it...I would want them to tell me. And I would be PISSED at them if I found out they knew and didn't tell me.

I can't believe some of you would actually stand by and just watch your friends get hurt.

werd,

it depends on the situation, but if my best friend new my girl was cheating on me and didn't tellme (which has happend) I would be pissed (and have been)...I never forget that shit thats for damn sure...cheaters p isss me off
-jw

Stardust · Post by **Stardust** » Nov 3 2004 04:25 pm

my thing is i try to stay outta other ppls biz...thats how alot of drama gets started in the first place...but if the person was a good friend of mine u betta believe i am going to tell them that someone is cheatin on them( but thats only if i got proof)

bottom line...cheatin is no good...whicheva way u look at its pathetic...dont do it!

Angie · Post by **Angie** » Nov 3 2004 06:57 pm

so much for the three answer new question rule. hehe

cheater? nope.

next question: what do you do to make your relationship happier?

Stardust · Post by **Stardust** » Nov 3 2004 07:09 pm

oops!

what makes a relationship happier hmmm... for me its honesty, that is so imp. to me if you can just be upfront life runs so much more smooth! And being adventurous. If you can do anything w/ your boyfriend/girlfriend then that just creates a happier healthier relationship! just be open minded and neva stand in the way of their dreams and goals...b/c i would neva want anyone to stand in my way! k i think thats its!

btw i answered this even though i am not in a relationship...this would be ideal!

gretchen ross · Post by **gretchen ross** » Nov 3 2004 07:20 pm

Stardust wrote: oops!

what makes a relationship happier hmmm... for me its honesty, that is so imp. to me if you can just be upfront life runs so much more smooth! And being adventurous. If you can do anything w/ your boyfriend/girlfriend then that just creates a happier healthier relationship! just be open minded and neva stand in the way of their dreams and goals...b/c i would neva want anyone to stand in my way! k i think thats its!

btw i answered this even though i am not in a relationship...this would be ideal!

i think you got lost. It's eharmony.com not enation.org. Hope this helps.

Stardust · Post by **Stardust** » Nov 3 2004 07:21 pm

gretchen ross wrote: i think you got lost. It's eharmony.com not enation.org. Hope this helps.

it must be the meds!